OBSESSED...

So the highly anticipated movie "Obsessed", starting Beyonce' Knowles and Idris Elba, opened today. This was actually a great movie, and Beyonce's best role yet. This movie really shows how sometimes you just can't be nice to people of the opposite sex. People can take little things the wrong way....especially some women.

Guys, sometimes the little things like giving a woman a compliment, may suggest that you're interested in her (at least in her mind). Now, I'm not saying that all woman are going to think this and that you can't show acts of kindness. A normal woman won't think that at all, but you may run across that occasional delusional, psychopathic woman that may take things completely out of portion.

Especially, if you're happily married or in a relationship. Now if you're single, then do what you want. But let's be honest, that crazy chick doesn't want you anyway...she wants that man that's already taken; the one that she can't have! She wants the man that is married to a beautiful woman, has a child/children, a wonderful home and is the VP of the company. She has that "all the good guys are taken" mentality, and now she's spotted you and she's got to have you! And you men can be soooo stupid when it come to this type of thing. You all really don't see when a women is trying to come on to you and think the some talk and friendly demeanour she has is just that...but it's not!

Fellas, if you fall into the category that I've mentioned above, then pay close attention! If a woman you just randomly met is now popping up at your job or places that you hang out at on a daily basis...If she starts referring to your wife as a "lucky girl" and saying how all of the good men are taken...then CAUTION! If she starts showing interest in your hobbies, the same music you like, or trying to find something you have in common this is a problem! If she already knows your interests before you tell her...she's trying to get you liquored up...keeps insisting that you have a drink...then BEWARE (and watch your drink)! Now, if she pulls the I just broke up with my boyfriend and I'm so heartbroken routine and she's crying...then RUN LIKE THE WIND!!! Your response to these situations is going to give her, her next move. If you immediately shut her down then it's over. However, if you continuously be nice to this girl and give her a shoulder to cry on; she will never ever leave you alone. And don't even think about sleeping with her!!!!!!! She will try to break up your relationship, kill your wife, and she will do any and everything until she gets you; and you will be in HELL!!!

Sometimes it does pay to be the asshole!!! You never know about people these days. Good men that are taken, you can not befriend every woman you meet. Trust me, sometimes go ahead and be the asshole, because you never know that one girl maybe OBSESSED!!!!!

***Go see "Obsessed" and if that doesn't convince you, go watch "Fatal Attraction" and "The Hand that Rocks the Cradle"***

Peace
*Lady J*
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