Communication...the act of giving or exchanging information, otherwise known as talking or having a conversation. And in 2009 there are numerous ways to communicate with someone...lets see, we have talking face to face, telephone, mail, fax, e-mail, text messages, on-line chatting, myspace, facebook, twitter, and who knows what else. So why, with so many ways to communicate, are people still not communicating?!?!?
This question puzzles me more than anyone will ever know. People, we are making things extremely too difficult these days! I know we live in a world today, where technology is at its peak and there's always something being created to do things for us to make life easier, but what...do we have to get something to communicate for us as well? There are still some things that we just have to do for ourselves and communicating is one of them!
Stop being scared, sugar coating things, lying to yourself...STOP MAKING EXCUSES!!! If you have something to say or something to express, just do it!!! Human beings are not mind readers!!! The only way I know what you're thinking or feeling is when you tell me, and that's exactly what I need you to do..TELL ME!! If you want something to change, feel a certain way, or if you're going through a situation...whether it's in a relationship, a friendship, at work, at school, or with your parents...you need to communicate that!!!! If you don't open your mouth and speak, no one is ever going to know what's going on. What the Bible say...Ask And Ye Shall Receive. Asking is a form of communicating! The Bible didn't say be quiet and receive. You don't communicate, you don't get!!!
I understand that not everyone is a good communicator, and communicating certain things can be hard sometimes; but communication is a necessity. Communication doesn't have to be mean, or cruel, or rude by any means, and with all the ways to communicate, pick one! And if it's uncomfortable...then good, you'll get used to it. Stepping outside your comfort zone is a good thing ; ). Trust me, a lot of things can be avoided if people just communicate! In the end you'll be glad you did it and it will greatly be appreciated!!!
Peace,
*Lady J*
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Glad to see that you are writing again. Keep the topics going. Good information, now let's see if people will use it.
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I defintely agree with you. I admit I use to be mad passive, but I have come out of that shell a little bit. Conversations are failing these days because people have too long to think, therefore, (imo)they out think themselves. Instead of the traditional face-to-faces and phone calls, people are texting or e-mailing, leaving too much time for the recievers mind to wonder. Face-to-faces and phone calls provide the natural interaction and understanding that "pauses" may pre-tell or suggest confusion. I actually have friends who refuse text messages and social networking sites because the breakdowns in communication. I'm on Facebook myself, and I see how even if people are trying to communicate; atonement is missed because words without a voice are just that.
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